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10 Writing Lessons from Friends

Posted June 3, 2016 by Jennifer Ellision in Lists, Writing / 0 Comments

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So, no one told you life was gonna be this way.
*clap, clap, clap, clap, clap*
Your job’s a joke. You’re broke. Your love life’s DOA.

Is it possible the Friends theme song secretly describes writers?

Today, I want to revisit a post from my old blog, Almost Grown-up, to talk about some basic writing rules-of-thumb… with the cast of Friends. Because I think its proper home is here and, to be honest, any post with Friends references is a better post, in my humble opinion.

1. If you’re a pantser, like me, beginning a new draft can feel like this:

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And that’s okay.

2. That can sometimes lead to a little of this:

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But that’s what revisions are for.

3. The thesaurus is a wonderful tool! But be sure not to overdo it.

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4. PACING matters

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5. Get into your characters’ heads!

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6. GRAMMAR ALSO MATTERS.

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7. I know naming things is hard. But make sure the name suits the character (because saying the wrong name is awkward for everyone).

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8. Don’t take ten words to accomplish what you could say with five.

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9. Don’t abandon your own work!

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10. Finally, a big revision goal should be:

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Choosing Done Lists Over To Do Lists

Posted December 7, 2015 by Jennifer Ellision in blog, Lists, Self-Publishing, Writing / 0 Comments

Choosing Done Lists over To Do Lists

For most of my life, I’ve been a big proponent of To Do lists. If you’re like me, you know that there is very little in life that is quite as satisfying as highlighting or crossing out an item on a To Do list. Marking it as complete. Accomplished. Finito. 

But lately, I’ve chosen a different sort of list.

Here’s the thing: my To Do lists lately include large tasks. Things like “Write your next book.” “Finish narrating an audiobook project.” Tasks that can’t be easily accomplished in a day.

Sometimes, I think ahead. I break it down to “Write a chapter.” “Narrate a chapter.” But then an email will come in that needs my attention and I have to switch gears to work on that instead. Didn’t get to take something off my list there either.

All of this occasionally leads to me staring down at the day’s To Do list with too few items crossed off and a horrible, sinking feeling of guilt, bordering on depression, over it. Not the healthiest feeling in the world. And the need to feel good about what I do each day is why I’ve switched to making Done lists at the end of the day instead.

Staring down at a specific list of what I have accomplished makes me feel a hell of a lot better and often– I’ll be honest– looks a hell of a lot more impressive than what I didn’t.

For instance, here’s today’s done list so far:

  1. Set up a ___ account
  2. Return message about audiobook
  3. Write and publish blog post

And I still have plenty of hours left in the day to add to it.

Have you tried making a “Done” list over the traditional To Do lists? Would you? And let me know which of them, if any, you prefer!

March Wrap-up

Posted March 31, 2014 by Jennifer Ellision in blog, Lists, Wrap-ups / 0 Comments

Another month has come and gone! Here’s what I did!

File under: ‘Threats of Sky and Sea progress:’

  • Received and made final copy edits from my editor
  • Completed an accompanying ToSaS short story for Inaccurate Realities
  • Sign-ups opened for my blog tour
  • Created the book trailer
  • Received my final cover design
  • Revealed said cover on IceyBooks, as well as a giveaway!

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File under: ‘IRL:’

  • Went to Tampa and St. Petersburg (Florida, not Russia) to visit a couple of sorority sisters and see the play “Disenchanted”
  • Attended the wedding of a sorority sister and a brother in the fraternity I was “sweetheart” of (um, the fraternity. Not the brother, lol)
  • Unplugged for a weekend
  • Ran (*cough* walked) in my second 5K, the “Run or Dye” run

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File under ‘Blog Posts:’

On Speaking Jenerally (aka here):

On The Bevy Bibliotheque:

On YouTube:

File under ‘a little light reading:’

  • The Indigo Spell by Richelle Mead
  • A Conspiracy of Kings by Megan Whalen Turner
  • Inaccurate Realities, Issue #2: Time Travel
  • The Fiery Heart by Richelle Mead
  • “Adrian’s Lost Chapter” by Richelle Mead
  • The Winner’s Curse by Marie Rutkoski
  • Something Real by Heather Demetrios
  • Love Letters to the Dead by Ava Dellaira
  • The Archived by Victoria Schwab
  • Tsarina by J. Nelle Patrick
  • Sekret by Lindsay Smith
  • The Unbound by Victoria Schwab
  • Noma Girl by Elizabeth Fama
  • The Strange and Beautiful Sorrows of Ava Lavender by Leslye Walton
  • The Geography of You and Me by Jennifer E. Smith