Ladies supporting ladies
I don’t pretend to be an expert on the YouTube or Wrock fandoms, nor do I pretend that I’m a close follower of either. But there’s been something of a shitstorm that’s gone down in those fandoms over the past week or so. Credible accusations of sexual assault, sexual manipulations and emotional abuse and emotional blackmail have been levied. I believe them. I’ve been quiet, wanting to express my thoughts after I’ve had time to really think about them. Here they are in one quick go: Step #1: NEVER blame the victim. Don’t support sexual abusers. Period. Being a fan of someone does not equal knowing them. Being a fan of someone DOES NOT make them have any less of an ability to hurt someone else. If you have been hurt like this, I hope that you have someone to reach […]